tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post1740143642929209793..comments2023-08-01T04:49:56.840-05:00Comments on A Southern Garden by Becca: This and ThatBecca's Dirthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-77565892586489988762009-11-10T16:58:17.234-06:002009-11-10T16:58:17.234-06:00What a bummer, you are too nice..stop being so nic...What a bummer, you are too nice..stop being so nice! Some people..I hope you can put it all behind you soon:(Far Side of Fiftyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07995757632158408442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-44565570779441973952009-11-06T15:08:13.376-06:002009-11-06T15:08:13.376-06:00She paid for those clothes with her dead sisters c...She paid for those clothes with her dead sisters credit card.Becca's Dirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-84457195385684242472009-11-06T11:17:06.121-06:002009-11-06T11:17:06.121-06:00Becca, now we know why the old saying 'no good...Becca, now we know why the old saying 'no good deed ever goes unpunished' is true. What an ungrateful selfish girl.<br />Hey, I am with the others have a yard sale. Unless you would rather just be done with the whole thing, then Goodwill or Salvation Army is a good idea.<br />Have a great weekend with the siblings Becca!Lonahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07060003333138052194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-41448467209756489052009-11-06T08:49:35.911-06:002009-11-06T08:49:35.911-06:00Hi Becca, Oh dear, this sounds very much like an e...Hi Becca, Oh dear, this sounds very much like an episode of Judge Judy! It's sad to me that so many people take their relatives for granted, and I hope you can get your cousin to pick up her stuff. You are not a free storage facility! (And, it's amazing someone down on her luck can afford brand new clothes that she never wears!?!?!?!)Monica the Garden Faeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06369882350990949968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-73094116648736819552009-11-06T08:26:01.239-06:002009-11-06T08:26:01.239-06:00I will definately remember this the next time I tr...I will definately remember this the next time I try to help someone. I am the kind of person who sees someone in need and I want to help them. I get myself in trouble that way - such as this. I worry about this everyday. Soon it has to come to an end and it will.Becca's Dirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245107413671341365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-61336153062063516642009-11-06T07:28:42.190-06:002009-11-06T07:28:42.190-06:00I'd yard sale it too! Maybe recoup some expens...I'd yard sale it too! Maybe recoup some expenses down the drain.You have to let this kind of emotional stuff go with the wind. If you don't it will stifle your spirit. Look at it as a valuable lesson and only think about it if you ever consider doing this kind of thing again! :)Carol Murdockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16749285023748227382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-41349800013929455562009-11-05T19:48:42.357-06:002009-11-05T19:48:42.357-06:00Becca, I'm sorry to hear about this situation ...Becca, I'm sorry to hear about this situation with your cousin. It is so frustrating and disappointing when someone takes advantage of you when you are trying to help them. I hope you can get her things out and reclaim your space soon. Must be very stressful for you.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03865193802444007545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-6055863559709768892009-11-05T19:28:16.996-06:002009-11-05T19:28:16.996-06:00Your heart was in the right place unfortunately he...Your heart was in the right place unfortunately hers wasn't, which is why she can't seem to show her face right now. She must be a miserable person inside...just be thankful you are not like her and move on to the next chapter. You did what you could, I'm sorry you had to go through this.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15642967022028132751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-20895530079053956732009-11-05T14:18:40.865-06:002009-11-05T14:18:40.865-06:00I agree, YARDSALE and make some money from it all....I agree, YARDSALE and make some money from it all. <br />Good idea to change the locks, you never know. WHO doesnt keep in touch with their Mother !!!???Debbie's Gardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02803981755222404336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-13832667337405710582009-11-05T12:41:55.979-06:002009-11-05T12:41:55.979-06:00I am so sorry. I'd have a yard sale. Make so...I am so sorry. I'd have a yard sale. Make some money out of the situation. I was there. I helped this guy where I used to live (mostly low income minorities). When I found out I was gonna move he wanted to move with us. Of course we said no way! Shortly after we say his face plastered on the six o'clock news! He had stolen a number of credit cards and was buying things with them while he was staying with us! He's now in jail! Yikes! We could have gotten tangled up in that mess!!Chicken Boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01086930297113842826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-68353289733937877022009-11-05T11:56:03.029-06:002009-11-05T11:56:03.029-06:00Crap---I hate it when things like that happen, Bec...Crap---I hate it when things like that happen, Becca. I'm sure that most of us have gone through something similar in our families/lives. Some people just feel as if the 'world' owes them a living. It's unbelievable. I'm sorry that your cousin treated you like that. You are smart just to get rid of her stuff. <br /><br />Hope you enjoy the time with your sister. The weather sounds perfect for going to some festivals!!!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />BetsyBetsy Banks Adamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16223591156634767330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-5950141075650060232009-11-05T11:50:43.763-06:002009-11-05T11:50:43.763-06:00I always look back at the times I thought I was of...I always look back at the times I thought I was offering a helping hand, and even if it turns sour, I feel it was a good choice in trying to help out another. You went with your heart, helped another in need. I would take the good from it, and now do what you have to in making things back to normal.<br />I think it was gracious and sweet of you, to let her stay at your home.<br />JoA Brit in Tennesseehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16080644141670903160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-41139780515037457282009-11-05T11:31:22.061-06:002009-11-05T11:31:22.061-06:00Good for you! Give all of her stuff to charity. Sh...Good for you! Give all of her stuff to charity. She doesn't deserve any of it. I really hate it when people take advantage, especially family. My brother-in-law took advantage of his mom and my husband, but it's a long story and I won't get into it, but let me tell you, it has really causes some bad feelings in my husband's family.<br /><br />KayKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17641583831560369417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3979720903165549695.post-1043450791225953792009-11-05T10:58:39.812-06:002009-11-05T10:58:39.812-06:00Don't ya just hate to be in situations like th...Don't ya just hate to be in situations like this? Been there, done that...I learned my lesson hope you have too. Enjoy life!!Darlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976608531478457839noreply@blogger.com